The community was abuzz with excitement following the completion of the community project which I and a few friends masterminded and executed. Wearing a large smile, he approached me with outstretched hands, and as we struck wrists in greeting, he told me ‘this project is wonderful, you need to see how it has added beauty & functionality to the area’. … Read More
Feel it, Say it!
I hear that one of the reasons women live longer than men is that they ventilate regularly – they speak out.
Are you able to say how you feel to people you relate with, abi your mouth dey heavy you?
Within the bounds of moderation & morality, we can greatly improve our relationships when we say it as it is.
Make Excellence A Habit
As I opened the door to proceed on my exercise this morning it dawned on me that I had not brushed my mouth. ‘No be solitary walk, wey only you go waka? No waste time, make we dey go’. ‘What is more your mouth no dey smell’. I rationalized, lazy to go back and eager to start off on the … Read More
The Salary Debate
For many years, I have seen the quote “Salary is the bribe they give you to forget your dreams’ used countless times by many different people. This morning, part of a friend status message read ‘Don’t bury your vision because of job. The job was never meant to be a permanent take but it’s established for those who have a … Read More
To Find Joy, Find your Purpose!
Why are you here? Where do we really go from here? Were questions that troubled me after a funeral I attended shortly after I turned 16. It was then I realized that finding our purpose in life is the most important thing there is. Truly, without answering those important questions, life is a rut and is quite meaningless. More and … Read More
Hurting Till When? Please Heal!!!
Everyone has been hurt by people they love & trusted to protect them.
Sometimes people hurt for many years for something that could have been resolved by an apology and a promise not to repeat the action that caused hurt.
Are you still in pain because someone didn’t acknowledge your pain and ask for your forgiveness?
Set yourself free from hurt & pain Now! See if this will work for you
How to Raise Money to Finance a Business
For a long time, the talk around Investment and Business has been on creating more streams of income and of being able to make investments that create and enable one to live on passive income. The economic ruins that many people suffer as a result of the effects of the pandemic brought the subject to the fore again and exacerbated … Read More
What does success mean to you?
To be successful means different things to different people. Even to people in the same activity, class, or event, success may mean a different thing to each one involved. For some, participating in an event like the Olympics is success; to others being in the top 5 of an activity is and yet to others only being number 1 qualifies … Read More
Mr. Entitled, Blame Me Not, I Do Not Blame You
We passed each other on the street, he looked at me, I looked at him. I didn’t say a greeting; he did not say a greeting. I don’t blame him, he shouldn’t blame me. We exchanged our contact details. He has a phone, I have one too. We both make calls regularly. He didn’t call me, I didn’t call him. … Read More
Friends Before
The changes are usually subtle, in little ways & in little things.These changes are wrought by our experiences, some are life-changing, some very minute. It could come resulting from an event or a series of events. Sometimes, introspection help one realizes what he is or what he should be & he makes the change. It could be triggered by a … Read More